Friday, October 4, 2013

Guide to Happiness for Single Women (Don't Get Involved With Single but Emotionally Unavailable Men)

For the most part, I've dated single but emotionally unavailable men. Either they just had a baby a couple of months ago and don't even know who the father is or they're not over their ex, or both. 

Otherwise, they have some psycho ex from whom they had to file a restraining order because that ex would make trouble. I must admit I even dated a person who was separated for months but whose divorce wasn't yet final. 

Now I have this new basic formula for lifelong happiness as shown in the visual above:

1 single man + that same man not over his cheating ex = me not interested. 

It's as simple as that. 

I might be lonely for a while because of it, and it could take months -- or even years to find someone who might finally be available. However, it's worth the wait -- I hope. Even at my age I still realize I deserve better than just someone else's leftovers. I'm better off on my own. 

Is this about the kids?

No, it's not. I'd give a single dad a chance again. However, I'm going to make sure I know exactly what kind of drama I'm getting myself info before I do.