Sunday, October 30, 2011

To the Commenter that Called Me Names

I received a comment yesterday that I deleted, but now I wish I would have just posted it and replied to it. Someone called me an "idiot b*tch" and put three exclamation points after it. I just didn't include it because I want to make sure this blog remains as PG-13 as possible.

To that Commenter


I'm not sure if you are a total stranger or a person I know, because you commented anonymously. However, I should just tell you that I am more than happy to address any concerns people may have about this blog. If it was a person I know, I am sorry is all I can say.

I am only human. I am working through many things in my life and am attempting to reach a resolution. I know I push my luck at times when publicly sharing. However, the main two reasons are for self-expression and for empathy of others.

Regarding the Entry to Which the Comment was Originally Posted


It was the one entitled Easier Said than Done (How to Get Over Someone You Cannot Have). I am not exactly sure what about that post was so controversial. Really, it is just about the fact that I have to accept that sometimes things just do not turn out the way I want. In that case, I have to just move on and not hang onto it.

On the other hand, it really is easier said than done. It is embarrassing to even admit I when I might have feelings for a person who may be long but over me. I also cannot help but become defensive to an extent, and thinking, "who does he think he is?" As if he is better than me or something.

However, I know there comes a point in time when I cannot keep taking it personally that someone doesn't want to be with me. I have to be a strong woman and work on myself so I can have the kind of relationship I want some day.