Thursday, October 13, 2011
I Don't Eat Peanut Butter Without Jelly
In case you are reading this and wondering what P&J sandwiches have to do with love. Well, let me tell you a thing or two.
Simply when I think of marriage I think of the person who is both my best friend and my only lover. Until I meet that person who is both a friend and lover to me then I don't want to even think about marriage. I want to have someone in my life who will be there with me when I am down, rejoice with me when I am happy, and engage with me when I feel sexual.
No Longer Going to Go Down that One-Way Street
Simple as that. Oh, and I want the person to actually be interested in who I am as a person. If a person were to do that for me I would definitely do it in return. I have had too many one-sided relationships and I am no longer going to go down that one-way street.
Back to the Peanut Butter and Jelly...
I don't eat my peanut butter without jelly. If you do then you are not the type of person I will want to be with-figuratively speaking. I want someone who eats his sandwich the way I eat my sandwich. What comfort that would be, because it would be a sign we both want the same things.