Saturday, October 29, 2011

Easier Said than Done! (Re: How to Get Over Someone You Cannot Have)

About a month ago I posted about How to Get Over Someone you Cannot Have. If you are in a situation like that all I can say is “how's that workin' for ya?”

That is, are you able to get over a person you cannot have? People do all the time get on with their lives after a heartbreak. However, I am learning it is easier said than done.

I know for myself it has been tough at times when I wanted to stop falling in love with men who may not be there for me tomorrow. I would always be looking for some reason, some small window of hope it would work. However, sometimes it really is just time to move on.

Regarding the prior article I wrote about this subject, I should add not to “beat yourself” up if you cannot get that person off your mind right away. It could take weeks, months, or years.

However, you are advised to get over someone you cannot have as soon as possible. Otherwise, you may never be able to enjoy a new person...

You may never really be able to appreciate that new one comes along when he or she does if you don't. By the way, meeting someone new who was just as special as the last person may be the only way to let go of the past. 

Still, you should keep How to Get Over Someone you Cannot Have as a reference guide to help you during those lonely times.